Stage 1: In this stage, which I refer to as emotional slavery, we believe ourselves responsible for the feelings of others.
Stage 2: In this stage, we become aware of the high costs of assuming responsibility for others’ feelings and trying to accommodate them at our own expense.
Stage 3: In the third stage, emotional liberation, we respond to the needs of others out of compassion, never out of fear, guilt, or shame.
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